How To Nurture Your Network Effectively Without Being Annoying

After the initial excitement of meeting someone dissipates, it is often followed by the well-meaning intention of “let’s stay in touch”, but most often, neither party does, and the possibility of a relationship fades.

Meeting someone is just the kickoff. What matters comes next: putting in the time and attention to allow that seed of a relationship to grow. But how do you do that while also avoiding being a pest or stressing yourself out with more to-do’s?

Let’s first agree on some basic principles of creating a framework for successful and enjoyable relationship nurturing. Please repeat after me: “I solemnly swear to build meaningful and genuine relationships that are reflective of who I am authentically. I won’t force it, nor be someone who I am not. I won’t seek gain for myself, but rather, view each person as an opportunity to challenge my curiosities, learn, find commonalities, and add value to his/her journey in some way. I can do this because I know that givers find more success and fulfillment in the long run than those who seek a tit-for-tat dynamic, or those who are out just for themselves.

Okay, now we’re ready!

I’ve compiled a list of my favorite tips, tricks, and tools that have helped me to become a master connector, and more so, to enjoy deeply…